Just because you don't have the body you want right now or you're not where you want to be in life doesn't mean you're not working hard. Nothing worth having comes easy, and it won't happen overnight. Respect the grind. We are all a work in progress!
Goals are individual, not universal. Just because someone can run farther, lift heavier, push farther doesn't mean your effort isn't just as respectable. Work hard for you and your own goals! Progress will come!