Even mum admits, 4-year-old Victoria's "not an easy kid" to take care of. But helper Za Za isn't allowed to enforce the boundaries.
TELL US: In their shoes, would you let your helper discipline your kid - and how?
We want your views for the new season of #TheFamilyAffair, an observational documentary premiering online first at channelnewsasia.com, on June 19.
Who Should Discipline Me?