Does just the idea of dating exhaust you?
5 Signs That You've Got Relationship Burnout
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01/19/2017 at 00:57
Tried online dating but find the process exhausting with no positive success. Hard to meet people in general and even harder to find a decent healthy man.
01/19/2017 at 01:13
Lately I've been kicking around the idea of getting back out there. Signed up on an initially free dating site to see what the world has to offer. To my surprise I did find a few women that caught my attention, but the idea of starting over still seems like its too much. I feel alot better about that after having read this. I'm not quite over the exhaustion yet I guess. Just nice to know that its normal.
01/19/2017 at 00:19
Other people's relationships burn me out hahah
yesterday at 21:00.
What will set you apart?
6 Ways to Stand Out From the Crowd
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yesterday at 23:08
Isn't this one of the things learned in...Kindergarten? To set your own set of values and beliefs and ditch social status items?
yesterday at 21:22
Apparently public nudity was not one of the recommendations.
yesterday at 21:38
My take from the article : do people still wear Jimmy Choos?
yesterday at 18:39.
The vow says "in sickness and in health," but you can expect more health if you can just stick to this one goal.
Does Having a Happy Partner Make You Healthier?
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yesterday at 19:03
People should have HONEST and realistic wedding vows. Do you promise to pretend to listen? Do you solemnly swear to fake orgasms for the rest of your natural life? And so on and so forth.
yesterday at 19:33
Relationship it is not always perfect; both parties should kbow all those limit.so
yesterday at 18:41
If you're both pessimists i doubt it xD
yesterday at 15:16.
When things go badly, we focus on what's gone wrong. It might be better to do just the opposite.
The Single Shift That Could Change Your Life
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yesterday at 19:36
Out of sort yes you can focus on the mistakes of every person ; but you need to analyze at the end ....
Michael Joseph Luzny
yesterday at 15:24
Tutoring for 1 year now; trying to invite a survivor to look instead of retribution; a seeking instead of their own joyousness.
Patricia Kate Robles
yesterday at 19:32
I could resolve a crisis by thinking about the pros and cons and making a balance about what suits me the best, what's best for my goals and ambitions. And being sure i'm being true to myself.
yesterday at 02:15.
On a first date, or an online profile, one overlooked factor may be crucial.
Is This the Secret to Attraction?
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yesterday at 03:04
There are some basic things that are usually attractive depending on your orientation. I find that very small details about a person attract me. I'm also attracted by oddity.......I know that's subjective but "perfection" is pretty boring.
yesterday at 23:10
I've been late to many a blind date where i never had the desire for a second encounter. Also... don't get too expansive gentlemen, or she might feel crowded... watch those arm gestures. If you're nice, funny, fairly attractive... and can read her reactions you'll be fine. Haha. Dating sucks.
yesterday at 02:24
I learned that who doesn’t look for you, doesn’t miss you and who doesn’t miss you doesn’t care for you… that destiny determines who enters your life but you decide who stays… that the truth hurts only once and a lie every time you remember it. There are three things in life that leave and never return: words, time and opportunities… therefore, value whoever values you and don’t treat as a priority whoever treats you as an option.
yesterday at 00:38.
Chronic shyness can lead to a vicious social cycle. These tips can help you or someone you know break out.
4 Ways to Overcome Shyness
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Lori Wagner Ford
yesterday at 00:45
I feel like this article is describing anxiety as shyness. I know many people who are quite content with being shy; however, most anxious people don't feel content at all.
yesterday at 07:48
I don't think this article is anything to do with shyness, it seems to be more about anxiety and lack of social skills as opposed to shyness, I'm shy and get embarrassed easily, but I'm not afraid or anxious
yesterday at 16:31
I'm not shy I just noticed most people are boring to me.. Painfully so... Everybody is like a robot with programmed responses.. especially in USA..
01/17/2017 at 19:40.
Is "make-up sex" a myth?
How Anger Can Ruin a Couple's Sex Life
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Chase A. Thomas
01/17/2017 at 20:09
Relationships that rely on sex to thrive often fail. Sex is more then just an emotion, it is a connection between two individuals that care deeply for each other. With this being said, using sex to overlook anger is like using alcohol to overlook depression. Does it work? For the time being but in the long run it does more harm then good.
Katrina Grant Georgiana
yesterday at 12:23
Most times being angry isn't a result of a fight. The concept of 'make up sex' is because during an argument (fight), a couple tends to draw closer at a revolution. You can be angry without an argument. That general anger can turn anyone (and in my case) a shrew. Who wants to make love to someone like that?
yesterday at 01:56
I don't think it helps. Because you neglect to talk about problems when you have make up sex. With us we hardly talk anymore. There's nothing to talk about anymore. We are around each other all the time and it's not like we can say how was your day at work?.
01/17/2017 at 17:36.
We expect more of our most reliable and disciplined friends. But how does that make them feel?
How We Treat the People We Trust Unfairly (Without Realizing It)
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Michelle Lawer Mullen
01/17/2017 at 22:13
Find the 2 and tomorrow you will get kissed 555565565555525566555. Count down 10,9,8,7,6,5,4,3,2,1... Now close your eyes and make a wish. Post this on 15 comments. Hurry up you only have 29 minutes
yesterday at 17:27
Shizuko you're definitely one of these people
01/19/2017 at 02:15
Deborah Hill Cone, the stupid PT will not reply u. National Geographic have great photographers, I recommend u.
01/17/2017 at 14:07.
Narcissists think they're pretty great, but not at everything.
Why Narcissists Think They're Better Than You
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01/17/2017 at 14:23
Narcs think they are better than you and use anger to protect their image and control you. No contact reduces them to an empty shell.
Deanna Marie Pollard
01/17/2017 at 23:56
What if you know you're a narcissist but you don't know exactly how to change? What if you're a narcissist and you are devastated about it and you didn't know you were a horrible person until you read the description of yourself in a narcissist thread?
(Asking for someone else)
01/17/2017 at 17:19
Because of the chemical imbalance in their brain. They are actually worse than everyone else because they cant take care of themselves they think we all owe them something.
Does pornography use destroy relationships or is it a sign that relationships are already broken?
What Porn Really Does to Relationships
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01/17/2017 at 00:10
Neither! 😠 Your poor communication skills and unrealistic expectations cause relationship problems. Don't try to shift the blame!
01/17/2017 at 00:05
I used to be excited about my psychology degree... until I read the crap coming from places like Psychology Today
01/17/2017 at 00:46
Why do people call it ' watching porn', it should just be called MASTURBATING. Which I believe is a healthy part of the self, to touch your body and explore yourself, so you know how to be intimate and what you like with your partner too. Is that wrong too? What are men/women supposed to masturbate to, a wall?
01/16/2017 at 21:36.
When you and your partner argue, do either of you ever hit below the belt?
How Couples Can Stop Fighting Dirty
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01/17/2017 at 22:34
if you fight dirty you have to be prepared for the consequences. a mature person does not "go there" unless they're truly ready for any repercussions, like the end of their relationship. mature people will talk things thoroughly out. it's very easy to take these cheap shots but the more enlightened person resists this urge. it isn't easy but very possible.
01/16/2017 at 21:55
What is that photo? The time Kurt Cobain and Courtney Love starting having a wobbler over a missing bag of smack?
01/17/2017 at 05:09
I don't argue, I just walk away life to short to be arguments!!
01/16/2017 at 18:20.
When you're feeling burned out, the thing you need most may be the last thing you think you want.
Why You Shouldn't Be Alone When You Feel Burned Out
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01/16/2017 at 18:30
As an introvert I need my alone time especially when I'm feeling burnt out, that's the only way I can recuperate my energy.
01/17/2017 at 00:16
Have yourself a hot shower, good meal, and a long nap. Being with others when I am down, burned out, is only further draining. Getting recharged puts a new perspective on everything. Then maybe it will roll around to being reasonable to spend time with others. Don't do it when you have nothing to offer anyone and your view of life is warped. This from an experienced old sage. Good day!
01/17/2017 at 00:57
Feeling burned out at work every day. If I could quit I would. Today was my short day and I was driving home feeling free and I was able to breath even got a good walk in to my home after dropping off car at mechanic that is in the same town that I live in. It was cold (but I like cold) and I got home with frozen hands and face but I felt happy to be out and about instead of at work.
01/16/2017 at 13:00.
Do you know anyone who still uses any of these sayings?
10 Common Expressions You Should Stop Saying Now
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01/16/2017 at 13:05
It sounds like the person that wrote this article spends far too much time in think tank meetings where people have nothing better to do than imagine what people might be saying instead of taking the statements in context of the actual setting it was used
01/16/2017 at 13:05
wow, all I could think reading this is... you've got to be kidding me! (go ahead and add that phrase to the list if you like)
01/16/2017 at 13:34
The writer would be real fun at parties 🎈 the only thing you 'should stop saying' is such depressing cynical critiques. A healthy optimism is, in fact, correlated with positive mental health.
Some people just aren't ready to act like grownups. Maybe you know one?
10 Ways to Spot an Emotionally Immature Adult
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01/16/2017 at 00:07
They're on Twitter a lot and their posts frequently end with "Sad!"
01/16/2017 at 03:08
In the headline photo, I don't see an emotionally immature adult. I see someone who is uninhibited, blowing off some steam or maybe just not being afraid to show his inner child (we all should have one) and taking a moment or more to play. The opposite is part of a large problem- man's inability to cut loose and play with no agenda or ulterior motives.
01/16/2017 at 02:09
I think that the Peter Pan Complex can also arise from having an awful and/or abusive childhood. When a person feels deprived of a normal childhood, they spend their adulthood trying to attain it. Just look at Michael Jackson.
01/15/2017 at 22:18.
If you or someone you know has trouble looking at the brighter side, these tips should help.
6 Steps to a Positive Outlook on Life
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01/15/2017 at 22:59
Take a capoeira class,cko kickboxing class,zumba class, yoga class, ballroom dancing class, kungfu class, or a salsa dancing class. I find when I get off the lazy boy chair,( that is in front of the tv.) and start being more active with social interactions I become a more positive person! I suffer from social anxiety, it was difficult to put myself out there, but well worth the effort.
01/15/2017 at 23:34
Some people have a hard time doing the introspection required for growth, because they can't think about undesirable qualities without taking it as an attack on their self esteem. Too much ego in the way. Drop the ego, and crank up the intuition. Validation is from an internal source, it's not other people's opinions.
01/16/2017 at 02:39
negative is good sometime, I really hate people with over-positive attitude. I think they just hide themself from something bad and try to treat its surface. I have 2 negative friends and they're ok to me, they're always see the dark side of everything but trying to fix them too.
01/15/2017 at 19:10.
Nonverbal expressions of love can be the most powerful. Here's why.
How We Say "I Love You" With Touch
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01/15/2017 at 19:54
Nonverbal communication is an elaborate secret code that is written nowhere, known by none, and understood by all.
The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart.
Dat Tien Bui
01/17/2017 at 00:56
When I hug her goodbye, I just want to hold on to her forever but I can't. The moment I turn around and leave, it feels like I just die a little inside knowing that I can never be more than a second-class citizen in her world. Maybe physical pain is sometimes necessary to distract ourselves from the emotional pain.
01/15/2017 at 19:37
My bf is overly affectionate, that's the best part of our relationship
01/15/2017 at 15:29.
Are we better people when we're young?
5 Valuable Things Kids Know About Life, and How They Unlearn Them
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01/15/2017 at 18:16
holding the door open for someone, able-bodied or otherwise, is just polite. It should be encouraged more, not less. Holding the door for someone and grabbing their wheelchair without permission are two completely different issues.
01/15/2017 at 18:50
When you're young you're a blank slate, pure until corruption or wisdom is bestowed upon you. Then it's for you to decide whether you use your experience and knowledge to be a decent person or not.
01/15/2017 at 15:34
Forget who hurt you yesterday, but don't forget those who love you everyday. Forget the past that makes you cry and focus on the present that makes you smile. Forget the pain, but never the lessons you gained.
Should you stay or should you go? This may help you decide.
The 5 Stages of a Relationship's End
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Psychology Scholars United - PSU
01/15/2017 at 01:05
How to detect when your partner is losing interest in you (you should already know when you are losing interest in your partner ):
• Sex life decreasing
• Partner isn't prioritizing time for you anymore
• Out of character (emotional distancing)
• Partner is frustrated with you a lot more than usual, especially for things they weren't before.
• Not displaying a lot of jealousy in situations where it usually was warranted.
~ Jessica Martins
01/15/2017 at 04:12
I learned at a very young age that people who said they were going to be there for you no matter what broke their promises. So now, I guard my heart. If I see any signs of getting hurt in a relationship I immediately walk away.
01/15/2017 at 01:43
don't let your self stuck for a worthless relationship, its better to be alone, rather than with someone who ruin your daily life.
01/14/2017 at 21:35.
How can you find the help you need? Start with this.
5 Questions to Decide If a Therapist Is Right for You
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01/15/2017 at 05:52
I can say that as a practicing therapist, I really wish my clients would ask me these questions, or similar questions. I feel that most of these are a good starting place to determine the direction of the therapeutic relationship. It gives the client a good opportunity to understand my style and it also gives me a chance to help them understand the expectations of them in the therapeutic relationship.
01/14/2017 at 22:16
Please, don't be ridiculous. :) A therapy is never a predictable, clear path.
And your therapist is the right one when your gut tells you that. You cannot make an "informed decision" on something like this.
Patricia Kate Robles
01/14/2017 at 21:40
First we should be assured they are certified register and license to work. Check at the Psychologist Association directory to be assured. Second do you feel at confidence to trust this person? If you feel sure you could hire the therapist is up to the client / patient if you want to choose the right therapist who best suits for you.
01/14/2017 at 17:00.
When you meet someone you like, how do you close the deal?
8 Ways to Launch a New Romantic Relationship
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01/15/2017 at 06:08
I usually initiate a romantic relationship by dropping my pants.
When she sees what I'm packing, it usually makes her flee in terror OR it seals the deal.
01/14/2017 at 23:47
When you give yourself permission to communicate what matters to you in every situation you will have peace despite rejection or disapproval. Putting a voice to your soul helps you to let go of the negative energy of fear and regret.
01/15/2017 at 09:18
You get one buddy to act like he is bullying another buddy in front of the lady you like, and then you step in and give the bully a stern talking to. Then he wanders off defeated by the vitality of your testosterone. The other guy thanks you, and stresses he doesn't know what he would have done without your help. Then you look at her and ask "can you believe that guy?". Then you get those digits. Bottle of wine, some oils, you good.