yesterday at 22:45.
Are you aware of the hidden signals (and red flags) your dating profile may be sending?
What an Online Profile Really Reveals About You
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yesterday at 23:03
I can tell you one thing ...... Entering into the Online Dating scene or any dating scene after having been in a relationship for 24 yard is a particularly complex place 😳 interesting mind you! It would've been handy to have this information to hand, it might have saved a considerable about of false impressions ..... All's well that ends well - and it is very possible to find that right person once you keep a positive attitude and not take things too seriously. Everyone has to start somewhere 😉😊
yesterday at 22:57
I just finally gave up, they all lied and all most of them wanted was to get into my bed, eat my food and empty my pocket book. What a colossal waste of my time. Never again!
Michael Mel Sethaile
yesterday at 22:58
Face to face conversations remain the Gold standard of human interaction but hey enjoy my profile and if u are lucky maybe ul get my number too lol
yesterday at 20:01.
Do you know someone who constantly violates your boundaries?
How to Stand Up to People Who Want to Walk All Over You
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yesterday at 22:50
This article has really helped with a current situation. Thank you. Any links to further reading would be appreciated 🙂
Nela Osmancevic Melyha
yesterday at 20:28
Something disturbing about the first comment needs to be answered. first of all, the author has in no way involved you in her discussion and therefore has not crossed any of your boundaries. Second, if her possession of a doctorate degree bothers you that much, get one yourself. Third, what makes you so sure you're going to heaven?
yesterday at 20:30
When I was kid I let my mom and sister walk over me because I was helpless once I became grown adult and have a child of my own I became more assertive hated me for that because stood up to them .no way let someone control me or walk over me even though we are related to each other ..my own daughterwho now grown adult with pecial needs don't take my sister crap .she saw how my late mom who was her grandmom treated. Her also growing up
yesterday at 17:42.
When you feel like you're about to lose it, do you have a go-to strategy to keep your cool?
9 Ways to Keep Your Emotions Under Control (and Which Really Work)
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yesterday at 19:30
Well I think it's healthy to lose it. Otherwise u'll end up with a heart attack while u keep all bottled up. I've seen it mslf. U deal with the situ as soon as it arises. Dooooh 😳😝
Michael Ian Shell
yesterday at 22:33
I deliberately spent years trying to be more stoic and suppressing my emotions through dissociation. I think in some ways it is better because having a cry about something doesn't change a thing neither does unnecessary guilt because of a societal convention; occasionally anger erupts because of reacting to stupid people or people's selfishness though.
yesterday at 23:23
Read about NLP and learn as much as you can about controlling your emotions...you find you can prioritise your mind and even focus on things that are important to you that you could not before
yesterday at 14:49.
Family estrangement can be painful, and bring hostile judgments from others, but it's also sometimes for the best.
3 Ways That People Try to "Divorce" Their Families
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Evelyn Trujillo Cabral
yesterday at 14:57
Best thing I ever did. Wish I did it sooner. In fact, every year I do not see my family--I get younger---lines dissappear, shoulders straighten and I feel stronger.
yesterday at 19:25
One cannot choose his or her parents, siblings, relatives, gender, the time they are born, their place of birth etc. but one can choose to remove himself or herself from an abusive and oppressive environment. One can forgive the oppressors but can still remove himself from their circle. Nations have their war of independence, likewise individuals also have to pay a price for their freedom and peace of mind. Freedom is not cheap. Enduring abuse is like being complicit with the abuse.
yesterday at 22:56
What I think, if you don't get right bringing up child or looking out for the child's future. Making the right decision for the child's future. Your choice for child, will invade with what reality throw or disagree with parents choice! Sometimes come down to earth and see how chances appear in today's society. Half the battle is your bringing up a child, will it blend in today's society! Observe the change. You put yourself down by calling yourself the black sheep of the family
A parent doesn't have to raise their voice to inflict a lifetime of pain.
The Brutal Truth About 6 Types of "Quiet" Verbal Abuse
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yesterday at 02:41
This is a ridiculous article. The example the woman gave about her mother buying a different color of shoes than she wanted and making something other than what she asked for for dinner.... seriously? Not abuse. Not even close. Somebody was a brat.
yesterday at 00:48
My parents expected me to go to church. They were "disappointed" when I didn't want to go or questioned it. I feel like this was abuse. Thoughts?
yesterday at 02:47
So i am a terrible parent?
Yea that's what i feel.
Im a very bad single mom.
But the one who make survive till now is my son
My life is for my son
I do everything for my son even if that hurts me.
But yea,,, im not good parent.
04/24/2017 at 21:42.
When one partner wants to have sex much more often than the other (or much less), is there any way for them both to be happy?
How Couples Can Negotiate Their Sexual Differences
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04/24/2017 at 23:56
My partner and I have been f*ing every single day for a year and a half and luckily, neither's desire or passion has waned. I sometimes wonder if we should expect this to change over time.
04/24/2017 at 23:01
Yes, stop believing that humans are a monogamous species, and just embrace that humans may need several partners in order to fulfill all of their needs: you go shopping with one friend, drinking with other, and cry with someone else. What makes sex so different that somehow you should only do it with one person? Why so many marriages and traditional relationships report such low levels of happiness, and people on open relationships report happier and better relationships?
yesterday at 02:41
We change emotionally, mentally, maybe have health issues, depression, kids...it's just life. It's not premeditated. Some people don't work out over the years, others are able to work through it.
04/24/2017 at 18:44.
One partner's "last straw" might be the other's first clue that there's trouble.
The Real Reasons Why Couples Split
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04/24/2017 at 19:46
In my experience, it has been the man. It seems that even years of concern over a troubled relationship, and begging for resolution and trying couples counceling falls on deaf ears...that is, until it's too late. My concerns are never taken seriously until I am done, and then at that point, it is nothing but begging on his part to try and make it work. I just don't get it.
Donna Maria Brown
04/24/2017 at 18:54
There can be a whole host of reasons. One thing not mentioned here is getting together for the wrong reasons to begin with. So many get together out of feeling lonely etc, or feeling they should be in a relationship.
yesterday at 04:04
It's because men don't believe their women or listen when we voice issues. It's when we walk out they finally have a light bulb moment like oh shot I should have listened to her but it's to late we are done and gone. Word to the wise men, if you want to keep us listen to us.
04/24/2017 at 16:13.
When it comes to your toughest conversations, your body language communicates at least as much as your words.
8 Ways Your Body Language Can Make or Break Your Most Difficult Conversations
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04/24/2017 at 16:22
A perfect article. After 20 years at Vims I must say the ups and downs are mostly about leadership. I am so greatful to say for several tiers above me the bosses exemplify these standards to the highest level conceivable. Thank you
04/24/2017 at 17:59
I can do everything with my language but not with my body. What I hide by my language, my body utters. I can deliberately mold my message, not my voice. By my voice, whatever it says, the other will recognize "that something is wrong with me". I am a liar (by preterition), not an actor. My body is a stubborn child, my language is a very civilized adult...
04/24/2017 at 18:04
Tanya get adding tuncay will ya 😂😂
04/24/2017 at 12:00.
When you start expecting to succeed instead of hoping not to fail, you're likely to succeed more often.
4 Ways to Train Yourself to Be Mentally Tougher
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yesterday at 00:49
Agreed--success happens when you visualize it because believing it causes you not to give up and to walk in the direction of the light. It also makes sense that referring to yourself in the third person can help your mental focus because it seems that it would cause you to think of yourself objectively and as an equal--you see yourself just as likely to succeed as anybody else, rather than "little old me" mentality.
04/24/2017 at 19:56
Danny Crouch....speaks to the transformation we are creating in our coaching. Using Strengths as the language to reframe how we think & feel about ourselves and our potential to maximise our future success.
Regina Noelle Reilly
04/24/2017 at 21:20
Well that's just the keeping your eye on the goal bit also keep an eye on who supports you and for 'what' reason along the journey! 🤔
04/23/2017 at 23:45.
Often, it's not just about the sex, although it can ruin sex for a couple.
The Reasons Someone Looks at Porn Matter. This Is Why.
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Patrick D. Chappelle
04/23/2017 at 23:50
Hell, I thought only men who couldn't get a girlfriend watched it. Then I discovered that women watched it. Then I found out that couples watched it. Then by that point, nothing made sense any more.
04/23/2017 at 23:49
Its a temporary escape from reality when you are stressed and long term it gives you an unrealistic image of women and how hey are supposed to "act" for your satisfaction and it stresses physical intimacy without love.
04/24/2017 at 00:14
I'm torn with this article, but mostly in agreement. It can be used as an unhealthy coping mechanism, like eating or drinking alcohol. It breeds isolation when in excess and retards the desire for socialization.
04/23/2017 at 22:08.
If you really wanted to get away from it all, do you think you could pull it off?
How People Escape Their Lives (and Why Some Never Come Back)
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04/23/2017 at 23:20
i moved across the globe instead. didnt visit my family for years... just kept in touch with a few people. that was a good fresh start for me
04/23/2017 at 22:43
Someone would come looking for me to do, laundry, grocery shopping, meal prepping, chauffeuring...
04/24/2017 at 05:39
I can picture my dateline special now...the voice of Keith Morrison...it was a cool, spring morning as the prairie grass danced to the Kansas sun.....little did everyone know this would be the last morning for this Wife, Soldier, business owner, Therapist, bartender, salsa slinger, mother of 4!!...
04/23/2017 at 17:26.
It's not true that nice guys never get the girl. But the research shows why it's not easy.
How Nice Guys Finish First
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La Nel Schwengel
04/23/2017 at 18:01
Nice guys are not always nice. They sometimes turn out to be monsters that can't be trusted. Many abusers are what people thought was the nice guy. The bad boys are often easier to trust because there is no monster coming. You already see the monster they are because they are not pretending to be a good person. Not a nice guy nor bad boy but somewhere in the middle tends to be the most normal.
04/23/2017 at 18:21
Most of the so-called nice guys are just pretending to be nice in order to get what they want. Once it turns out to be all a big charade it can be a terrible disappointment. Integrity, honesty and self love are the qualities one has to look for.
04/23/2017 at 18:56
The ones who complain they're 'nice' and keep getting 'friendzoned' because girls just want fuckboys are usually said fuckboys and jerks. If your only quality is your 'niceness', and you expect sex and a relationship from just that, it's no wonder you're single.
Plus, self proclaimed nice guys are very rarely nice
04/23/2017 at 15:10.
New parents try to prepare for everything but few anticipate the sometimes crushing loneliness of being a new mom.
Why Becoming a New Parent Can Be So Painfully and Surprisingly Lonely
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04/23/2017 at 17:55
This must be a cultural thing. In the Hispanic family, everyone plays a part in caring for the baby. The new mommy's friends still come around to keep their spirits up.
Gaye Lynn Fletcher
04/23/2017 at 16:30
Reading through comments on threads like this gives one a lot of insight into the human race and it's very disturbing why are some people so mean!
04/23/2017 at 17:38
What sitting home alone all day with a newborn isn't enough to satisfy our need for human interaction with those we can have a conversation with...really is this news seems common sense moms groups & the play dates are for parental sanity too
You're broken up after a breakup, but your ex seems fine. What gives? This.
The Most Important Step to Take After a Breakup
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04/23/2017 at 00:03
Probably because they never really cared or loved you. Live your life and eventually someone will come and appreciate all the love you give.
04/23/2017 at 01:53
From experience i ve noticed guys tend to be stuck years after a break up or divorce whereas ladies grieve and completely move on. So who said they are fine, its just what u do not see or hear about.
Plus many individuals plan break ups way before the break up actually happens, thats y one side always seem to move on faster.
04/23/2017 at 01:17
He treated me like an option. I was only included in pieces of his life or on his terms. How did I permit this to continue? Ugh. That is not love. 6 weeks & he is fine. Good grief...
04/22/2017 at 21:24.
Most people try to avoid personal relationships with narcissists. Why, then, do narcissists have such success as public figures?
Why (Sometimes) We Really Do Like Narcissists
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04/22/2017 at 22:52
Everybody loves the public narcissist because they do come across as great and the life of the party.... Until you get in a relationship with them then you see that they really are a fake and very abusive. And also they don't know how to love in a relationship.
04/23/2017 at 01:15
Psychology Today, guys, like, mix it up a bit. There's a LOT of articles on narcissism. I'm approaching narcissism fatigue. I don't want to unsubscribe but I will to protect my mental health, m I rite
04/22/2017 at 22:55
Because Narcissists tell you what you want to hear. Look no further than politicians. Classic Narcissists.
They are like heroine. You keep voting for them even though you know it's going to end badly.
04/22/2017 at 17:44.
Infidelity has many psychological sources. But it always hurts a betrayed partner.
13 Reasons Why Men Cheat
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04/22/2017 at 18:53
I've never cheated. I've never wanted to cheat or felt the need to cheat, even when I was unhappy.
But I have been cheated on...
And I can never accept any excuse or reason given for it, because it's one of the worst things you can do to another person.
There just isn't a good enough reason for cheating on your partner.
It makes you a coward.
04/22/2017 at 18:18
Those are all "I-" statements, they are all very selfish reasons. You have no excuse to cheat when your wife is in the same relationship and stays loyal and continues to respect your feelings.
04/22/2017 at 18:51
Cheaters cheat because of unfaithful hearts that cannot stay faithful. It's called flawed character. It has absolutely nothing to do with the victim but everything to do with bad character.
04/22/2017 at 16:23.
Have you ever heard strange, even ghostly, noises while you slept, and realized they came from your partner? This is the condition behind it.
'Sleep Groaning': Very Real, and Very Creepy
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04/23/2017 at 03:08
My husband does this too. Apnea, restless legs and restless arms, and sleep moaning. No wonder I can go to bed at 1:00 AM and listen till 4:00AM now every night. I have to pass out, or he gets up at 4:00 AM and gets gone for the work day. I have to get some more silicone ear plugs!
04/23/2017 at 06:49
Is it only sleeping. Not a stupid question lol my Husband does it during the day. He moans at the end of sentences and at odd times, eating is the worst. Drove me mad when we got together lol is it the same thing?
04/22/2017 at 16:55
Several times when I say this to my wife, she never believed. I record her sound and play on my mobile. She wakes up immediately and questions who is it. I silently smile and reply, this is how it makes me feel.
04/22/2017 at 00:30.
For some women, the most attractive men are the ones who are already taken.
Why Some Women Are Attracted to Unavailable Men
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04/22/2017 at 00:45
I have another theory on this. It seems that a person who is HAPPILY "taken" often has the confident and complete vibe about them. By "complete", i don't mean that another person can complete you, but "complete", meaning that they don't have the vibe that they are desperately seeking. Isn't a wholesome and complete person attractive? Maybe not to all people, but this is my theory on it because I've seen people shed that vibe of being single and feeling down on their singleness.
04/22/2017 at 01:53
Ive met and seen many women try to see if they can just " get your man from you" . just to be above you and have the boast that they are better than you. I say if he wants to go... Go. Im not competing. Because when he sees that the woman actually is a skank on a day to day, he will want to come back, but to bad so sad. Stay with the one that turned your head. Now go be unhappy because i was good to you. ... Kinda off topic but i guess i have some hidden issues lol
04/22/2017 at 00:57
Low self-esteem and fear of intimacy. It's that simple. On some level, they fear intimacy will lead to rejection... So they choose unavailable men that have a self-destructive quality to them. Avoiding intimacy means avoiding rejection.
04/21/2017 at 22:10.
People report a lot of reasons for lying to their partners. Are any of them worth the risk?
The Truth About Lying in Relationships
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04/21/2017 at 22:55
Lying is for cowards!!!
I tell them the truth!! Unfortunately i don't add any artificial flavors to the truth! Serve it raw! You want the truth! You definitely get it from me!!!
04/21/2017 at 23:15
Problem about a small lie is you then can't believe they are honest about serious things. There is no such thing as a white lie, just harmful lies and worse lies.
04/23/2017 at 03:29
Oh please, if we were honest about every thought to enter our head, it would be a disaster . Thats where maturity, compromise and self awareness factor in
04/21/2017 at 20:36.
Most of us have between 5 and 15 "closest" friends. This is how we keep them that way.
The 9 Simple Ways to Keep Your Closest Friends Close (and Why It Matters So Much)
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04/22/2017 at 02:20
People these days are poor friends mostly - very flaky and not loyal. I don't tend to understand this as I am the most enduring, loyal friend you will ever find - and I seem to project this onto others expecting them to possess similar qualities - not the best idea!. I am often shocked to find that mostly people these days are unreliable friends.
04/22/2017 at 02:16
Heath Haltiner, you rock as a friend! This list is what I've been saying, it's on point. We can talk about this later, it made me lol According to this, We have 1 real friend. 😂😂
04/22/2017 at 01:50
It's a 2 way street though. I can count at least 4 or 5 people who I was friends with and tried to maintain the friendship with who just either had the craziest excuses or just flat out dropped off the face of the planet. It hurts. And they are all women too :-/ the funny thing is, people think Facebook friends are imaginary but there are a handful of ladies I've never met who are better friends than many people I knew IRL. Maybe it's the distance, I don't know.