Low ovarian reserve

After trying to get pregnant for a couple of years I have had tests done and I have a low ovarian reserve. AMH of 4.2. My fsh levels seems fine at 1. I'm going to see the specialist in 2 weeks and am wondering if anyone has become pregnant? What did your doctor suggest as the next step? Clomid or ivf? I already have 3 children my youngest being 8.

Regardless of what...
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Child Support?

I am about to lodge an application for child support for my children whom I have had 100% care of for the last three years (Family Court Orders in place).

My ex-husband has never been agreeable to helping out financially since our separation a few years ago and has a history of becoming abusive on the odd occasion when I did ask for help (history of DV & FV).

I feel nervous...
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Husband has a porn addiction.

Short and sweet..
my husband has admitted to having a porn addiction.

We had a fabulous sex life prior to baby number 2 and some serious health complications for me. All of which are now resolved and not that it should matter but I am back below my pre pregnancy weight and I look after myself.

He actively rejects intimacy with me in favour of watching porn...
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A ramble... A cry... A motivational pep talk.

The hardest thing about depression isn't the depressed part...

It's the fighting.
The continuous fighting.
Of yourself
By yourself.
For yourself.
It's the forcing yourself to keep swimming no matter how tired you are,
How completely and utterly, whole body exhausted you've become...
that's hard.
Giving up...
that's easy.
Having to force yourself,...
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Sad 6 Yr old, worried Mum

I'm worried about my 6 year old daughter. She is one of the youngest in her class & struggles with her schoolwork, however I am doing my best to support & not put pressure on her, only to listen & try her best.

However, recently, on a number of occasions, both at home & at school, she has said that she 'wants to die', to 'punch herself until she dies' & that 'she...
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Newly single and need advice

Hello Everyone, I have recently become a single mum of 3 kids ages 13, 12, and 4. I honestly have no idea where to start with the whole process of moving on and what help is available to me, at the moment I have only seen centerlink about parenting payment. My question is can anyone please recommend a good solicitor in the Melbourne area (particularly the western...
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Greif from cheating

I got married when I was 19. My husband of eight years had three seperate affairs. Each one lasted a year or two and he would break it off when I was getting suspicious.

The first one he literally flaunted in front of me. The second one I wasnt fully sure on until after I left and saw the credit card bills. The third one i didnt realise was fully going on until he told...
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2 yo still not sleeping through. .

Hello everyone, so i would be interested to know your opinions/advices about this.

My son just turned two and is still not sleeping through the night yet.

If he wakes up 2-3 times, it's a good night. So you've guessed it : we are freaking tired...

We have a bedtime routine (laying beside him, singing lullabies ) and he sleeps in his own room. and at...
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Surprise Pregnancy

Monday I did a home test and found out Im pregnant with number 2! I did another two since then - all positive.
Im booked in Monday with the doctors.

Im all over the place. Im really excited, and happy. Then Im crying and panicking.

Is this normal?

I had hoped for three years after my first I'd be lucky enough to fall pregnant again. Now that its happened Im on a crazy...
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Bone scan found a "hot spot"

Hi, wondering if anyone could possibly shed some light to help one very stressed out mumma!

My 6yo sons specialist sent him for a bone scan due to chronic pain. The results came back with a "hot spot" on his tibia bone. They then sent us for xrays to see if they could find anything. The xrays came but inconclusive, he said that vine scans can pick something up...
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Birthday present from partner

Hello lovelies ?

It's my birthday next week. My partner has made it crystal clear he's not going to get me anything. Last year (we had just met) he got me a card.

Am I right in feeling a little let down?
I feel disappointed he won't be making an effort.
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Big spoon vs little spoon

But silly I know but does anyone else have to be the 'big spoon'?

Hubby loves to cuddle and I'm not overly touchy and therefore I can only be the big spoon when we go to bed or curl up on the lounge. The rare exceptions to this are when I was very pregnant or have a migraine and get him to rub my head.

Seems silly but I guess I just don't want to be the only one...
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Mental Help For My Daughter

So after years of trying I've finally convinced my partner that my step daughter's obsessive tendencies and anger issues are things we need professional help to deal with. There was some trauma in her early life and I think it's had a more pronounced affect than we realised at the time, so now I think I have the green light to seek professional help.

My question...
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Buying a house?

We have $20,000 in a savings account to use as a deposit.
Our combined income is around $80,000.
Would we be able to purchase a home that cost between $200,000-$300,000?

What do lenders take into account?
Can we apply for a home loan before looking for a house to see how much we can borrow or do we find a house first and then apply?
Do we have to be completely out of debt? We...
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Buying a house We have 20000 in a savings account to use

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Attention Teachers

I'm a qualified Secondary Teacher and am currently working as a Supply Teacher after coming off maternity leave. I've been working in Primary Schools while doing supply and am really enjoying the change. I'm due to go on maternity leave again for the whole of next year and then will start back in a permanent role at the beginning of 2019.

My question is, has anyone...
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TTC is there hope?

My partner and I want to have a baby together... only problem is his sperm count is pretty much zero and I've only got one ovary. hes gone through ivf before but his ex wife was found to be infertile.

Any miracle stories out there? Any hope? We have talked about ivf, that's an option. He won't consider using donar sperm which I do understand.

Should I give up hope and...
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Can I just give up on sex with my husband?

my husband and I have been together 12 years we have children and laughs and heaps of love. I do not want to pursue other relationships or anything of that sort.

For YEARS now he has had a particular sexual interest which not only doesn't do it for me actually really makes me unhappy and uncomfortable to be a part of - I don't want to do it or...
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Past and Secret Lives

I badly need your thoughts on what I am experiencing now. I got married in Feb this year to a man whom I have spoken for a year and have exclusively dated for 4 years (makes it 5).

He told me about his previous marriage and the family he had from the marriage. Today I went to have my name updated to his surname. The councelor did ask me for his divorce papers which he...
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Devil baby

Does anybody have any good exorcisms that work to remove the devil from my baby?
Devil baby Does anybody have any good exorcisms that work to remove

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Sex after lletz

Hey all im after some positive feed back on others after having Lletz done.

The entire surface area including about a 3rd of my total cervix was removed and im curious (also a little worried) as the immediate area was also cauterized did you loose sensation in that area and did it affect the feelings down then when you got "back on the horse"?

I had a bit of a freak out on...
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